Don’t you hate it when you met someone who is a total stranger
but their smile can make your heart warm. They can comfort you only with their presence. But
then after you both going home there’s nothing to feel and you facing the reality again. If you maybe not a kind of person who can
easily fall in love with someone, then maybe you don’t understand this. me as a person
who easily fall for anyone I found this annoying. I mean I know that guy who
staring at me would love to have a little conversation with me. But I also know
he won’t do that because for the sake of dignity. People don’t suddenly asking
someone’s day or their number at first sight. No matter how much they want to
have conversation so badly. I don’t know how much guy I've been secretly love
at our very first meeting. And I also don’t know how much love story I will
have if we brave enough to get in touch. If you guys, the people who don’t fall
in love easily, are curious I am single. I am not that kind of sad single who
desperately wants guy’s attention due to the emptiness as a sad single bitch.
Actually I feel like I don’t need people. But sometimes when it comes to
perfect stranger I met at every place I feel the sudden need to connect with
people especially this oh-so-perfect-stranger I don’t care if actually he
already have girlfriend or he’s a cold-blooded murder(ok this is scary) to me
it doesn't matter as long as I’m happy,unharmed,and loved. So what do I want ?
I want people to be more you know open. If you think someone’s pretty go tell
them pretty, if you like someone go tell them, if you like something go tell
them. Life has so many surprises(tho I hate surprises), you’ll never know what
will happens to you. Who knows that someone you deeply secretly love, loves you
too. I know it’s hard. I know that would
be awkward because our society didn't used to do those things. People now feel more comfortable to mock
people, showing other’s flaw, focusing on the bad side of people rather than
tell people what you love from them, showing other’s kindness, focusing on the
good side of people.
Saturday, August 30, 2014
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Hello. How are you ? I wish you
all well and safe. Well I’m doing just fine and I have something to tell you.
I just finished reading the
first series of divergent. A novel about factioned world wrote by Veronica
Roth. The story was quite awesome. And the story giving me hope. It’s not the morality that giving me hope. It was
the love story between Tobias and Beatrice. They fallen in love. They want each
other. They combine lust and love. Although i’m sure they’re having not much
lust since they aren’t get laid yet. The way Beatrice love and want Tobias to
me was beautiful. She felt something when around him. Maybe it was butterfly
but this butterflies make Beatrice comfortable around him. The touch on her
skin, the attention he gave, the way he protect her it’s all making me to have
this hope. I hope i would fall in love. I hope i could feel the way Beatrice
felt when she’s with Tobias, when she’s touched by Tobias. I never fall in love
before. When it comes to like someone, I always pull myself away from them like
I was irritated by their presence but actually I wasn’t. I like them. But to be
around them is too much for me. Surely, I didn’t feel the way Beatrice feel
when we’re around our someone we like. Now i have this question inside my head.
Does everyone who was in relationships feel that way ? I wanted to ask this
question to people who had a lot of exes. How can they moving on ? if I ever
fall in love I’m not sure I would be able to left them or to let them leave me. Maybe I will do whatever
it takes to make them stay because i love them. But then again there’s another
question pop up in my head. What if the feeling has gone ? what if the reason
they left me because they’re no longer in love with me ? I know Tobias saying
that if Beatrice risk her live at danger again then their relationship will
end. But in that particular conditions maybe Tobias wouldn’t be able to
separate from her. The results will be different if Tobias have done with her.
He’s no longer in love with her. Then maybe tobias will be gone and Beatrice
will be alone with her sadness. I don’t want it to happen. Beside that, I found
myself felt that i was like divergent. Sometimes I don’t feel like mean what I
say. And i have a very incredible
imagination than most people. Although i’m not too bright to manipulate other
but i can make myself believed what i’ve had imagine. Lately i’ve been drown in
my own world. My parents would have find me always daydreaming when there’s
time. If i was a divergent so I was the Beatrice. And the last question I can
utter on this letter is “When will I
find my own Tobias ?”
PS. Oh please remove the war part out of my life. I don’t
want to be in thrilling situation like that. Thank you.
Sincerely,
Yours
Thursday, January 16, 2014
Sebagai perempuan tentu kita malu jika tersenyum dengan gigi yang kuning. Seringnya meminum minuman berwarna seperti kopi, red wine atau bahkan teh memudarkan warna putih gigi kita. Sedangkan biaya memutihkann gigi di Dokter tidaklah murah. Oleh karena itu saya akan memberikan tips bagaimana memutihkan gigi di rumah.
Bahan yang diperlukan :
1 sdt Baking Soda
Perasan Jeruk Lemon secukupnya / 1 buah Strawberry dihaluskan
Sikat Gigi (Saya sarankan gunakan sikat gigi yang berbeda dengan yang anda gunakan setiap hari)
Cara :
Campurkan baking soda dengan perasan lemon atau strawberry tambahkan baking soda sampai menjadi adonan. Lalu ambil dengan sikat gigi dan oleskan ke gigi anda seperti menyikat gigi. Jangan terlalu lama menyikat cukup 1menit saja kemudian langsung dibilas dengan air.
Lakukan cara ini seminggu sekali. Karena jika dilakukan terlalu sering akan merusak enamel gigi anda. Selamat mencoba dan selamat mendapatkan gigi putih bersinar anda kembali.
Untuk referensi silahkan tonton video berikut ini :
Jaman sekarang semakin banyak orang yang peduli akan gaya hidup sehat. Radikal bebas dan penyebaran virus membuat sebagian orang lebih memilih mencegahnya dengan melakukan gaya hidup sehat. cara yang dilakukan bisa dengan olahraga setiap hari atau cukup dengan makan-makanan bergizi sehat. Dibawah ini ada beberapa tips dalam menjalani hidup sehat :
1. Olahraga
Untuk hidup sehat kita perlu berolahraga, tidak perlu datang ke pusat kebugaran seperti Gym atau tempat fitness. Olahraga cukup dengan berlari atau bersepeda selama 10 menit setiap hari. Ingat lebih baik sedikit tapi rutin daripada banyak porsi tapi seminggu sekali. Jika anda tidak punya waktu untuk olahraga, biasakan diri anda berjalan kaki entah dari kantor ke tempat makan atau dari rumah ke supermarket yang jaraknya tidak terlalu jauh.
2. Roti Gandum
Mulailah mengganti roti tawar anda dengan roti gandum. Selain mengandung banyak gizi, roti gandum juga dapat memperbaiki pencernaan anda.
3. Teh Hijau
Setiap hari usahakan meminum secangkir teh hijau. Dengan kandungan anti-oksidan alami serta Polyphenol yang dapat mencegah kanker membuat teh hijau sangat baik untuk kesehatan tubuh kita.
4. Air Putih
Jangan lupa minum air putih setiap hari. Selain untuk mengganti cairan tubuh agar tidak dehidrasi, air putih juga dapat mengurangi kekuningan di gigi akibat minum kopi atau bahkan red wine. caranya cukup dengan meminum segelas air putih segera setelah minum kopi tersebut.
Monday, August 19, 2013
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Monday, February 11, 2013
As a human, we're not perfect. But we want to be perfect. Perfection is everything for some people. For me, I would rather be a better person than perfect person. Because perfection is God's. Today I was searching on Thought Catalog and I found this great article by Chelsea Fagan for people who seek perfection or want to be a better person. So here's 24 Ways To Be A Better Person :
1. Look at yourself in the mirror every morning before you
go out the door and give yourself at least one compliment that you actually
believe — even if it has nothing to do with your body. Even “Your sweater looks
nice today!” will work.
2. Give friends real, squeezy hugs when you greet them and
tell them that you’re happy to see them.
3. Make an effort to be especially polite and kind to people
you talk to throughout the day for mundane, work-or-errand-oriented things. Try
to make the interaction as pleasant as possible, even if the content is boring.
4. Speak clearly and articulately when you want to get a
point across, making sure to illuminate your ideas well. If it seems like
someone is not understanding what you’re saying, try and help them understand
in a kind way, without making them feel like they’re stupid for not getting it.
5. If you don’t understand something, ask. Don’t let the
conversation move forward without you being on board because you’re embarrassed
to admit that you didn’t understand the first time around. Remember that there
is nothing wrong with asking nicely to repeat something.
6. Give up your seat on the subway.
7. Allow the little acts of rudeness that people enact on
you throughout the day to serve mostly as a reminder not to do them yourself.
If someone lets a door slam in your face, for example, take a deep breath and
hold the door with a smile for the next person.
8. Try to waste as little as possible when it comes to
everyday activities. Use fewer paper towels, turn off lights, recycle.
9. If you’re going to hang out at someone’s house, pick
something up on the way there that you know you can enjoy together — even if
it’s just a little pack of cookies. Get used to not showing up empty-handed.
10. Offer to help someone if you know they have something
like a move coming up and you’re available, so they don’t feel like they have
to burden you by asking.
11. Keep secrets.
12. Take the extra moment to actually put something back on
the shelf you got it from if you decide you no longer buy it. Get out of the
habit of just leaving your unwanted items on a random shelf for someone else to
deal with.
13. Always be clean and respectful when using a public
restroom, instead of making a mess for both the custodian and the person who
follows you.
14. Offer to help someone at work if they look like they’re
having a really hard time doing their job of late — you never know what’s going
on at home, and even just bringing them a cup of coffee in the morning when
they don’t have time to get one themselves could be a huge help.
15. Treat someone when you’re going out once in a while
instead of always splitting the check — people will end up reciprocating,
sometimes right when you need it the most.
16. If you sense that someone in your group is having
financial problems, offer to do things with them that are affordable instead of
making them awkwardly decline every invite.
17. Hang out with a friend when they are feeling really down
and ask them what they want to do. If they want to just chill out and watch a
movie, let them put on their favorite one.
18. Donate to the homeless around you once in a while. Offer
to buy them a meal, or give your spare change, or bring them a cup of coffee
when it’s cold.
19. Make more of an effort to talk to and learn from your
elders.
20. Call your parents.
21. In conversation, ask a more specific question than “how
are you?” so that they are more inclined to give a real answer. Ask them what
the coolest thing they’ve done lately is, or what’s new at work, or what movie
they want to see and why.
22. Tell people when you like them, and remember that being
rejected is not the end of the world.
23. Be kind when you reject people.
24. Go out of your way to do something nice at least once a
day, in a way that may never prove beneficial to you in the long run. Even if
you just let someone go ahead of you in line when they are pressed for time,
it’s worth the tiny bit of effort it takes to do.
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